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How to Help Your Children Adjust to Your Divorce

How to Help Your Children Adjust to Your Divorce

How to Help Your Children Adjust to Your Divorce

Divorce can create tumultuous and challenging times for the family, especially when there are children involved.  Children can be confused, ashamed, angry, or afraid for their future when their parents decide to split.  Often times, parents consider their children's feelings while they are going through a divorce, which helps everyone overcome the challenges of this process.  However, this isn't always the case.  Sometimes, it can end in bitter conflict that stirs up resentment and anger.  As a family law practice in Winter Park, we work through our divorce cases with special attention to what the children need during this time.  There are a few ways you can help your children adjust to your divorce, before, during, and after the process.

Sit Down With Your Kids

Whenever you first realize it's time for divorce, you'll want to sit down with your children and take the time to explain what's going on.   This way, they won't be blindsided by any situations that will follow, including a parent moving out, a move, or frequent babysitters.  Be sure that you approach this topic with sensitivity to their feelings, and be as honest as possible while still protecting them.

Be Reassuring

Many children of divorce will likely immediately be concerned with how this will affect their time and relationship with each of their parents.  They are used to seeing both mom and dad on a daily basis, so no what?  Take the time to reassure your children that both parents will still be a large part of their lives.  Keep them informed and involved in the custody agreement process.  This way, they will have full understanding of what to expect once the divorce litigation begins.

Give Them Space to Discuss Their Feelings

Children should always be given a chance to discuss how they are feeling whenever they are going through any difficult times in their life.  Be sure to give them the space to openly communicate their emotions, whether they are angry, happy, or afraid.  Discuss these feelings with them and be sure to keep them in mind when you are making decisions with your ex.  Parents should encourage an open dialogue with their children to show that you listen to and accept their role in this situation.  They are going through it as well.

These are just a few ways you can help your children adjust to your divorce.  By avoiding conflict in front of them and discussing the important information openly, they will have a better understanding and feel involved throughout the process.  When you work with our professional and experienced family law practice in Winter Park, we will make sure that everyone in the family is taken care of during your divorce.  Contact us to get started with a divorce attorney today.